October 29, 2010

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Presenations with a Purpose

As I mentioned in my last post, I attended an awesome life-changing 3-day workshop in San Diego a couple weeks called “InfluenceOlogy” that taught a small group of 12 of us how to make very powerful, very persuasive sales presentations to groups.


InfluenceOlogy Seminar - Oct. 15-17, 2010 - San Diego, CA

InfluenceOlogy Seminar - Oct. 15-17, 2010 - San Diego, CA

seminar1 Presenations with a Purpose

seminar4 Presenations with a Purpose

We all paid a lot of money to attend the workshop, and their information is proprietary, so I can’t go into too much detail but I can tell you this:

When you make a presentation to any group of people, first determine what is the goal you want to achieve?

seminar2 Presenations with a Purpose

For example, if you are a mortgage loan officer making a 15 minute presentation to real estate agents at a sales meeting in a real estate office, what do you want them to do at the end of the meeting?

You might think the answer is obvious, “I want them to send me some loan business.”

But WHY should they send you loan business?

What happens if they DO send you loan business?

And more importantly, what happens if they DON’T send you loan business?

You need to think this through before you make a presentation to any kind of group that you are trying to influence to a specific desired action so that you can tailor your entire presentation to that desired outcome by answering the questions above.

It’s a marketing cliche, but it’s true: Always put yourself in your audience’s position and ask the question “What’s in it for me?”

You must know the audience.

What are THEIR needs and goals?

What are THEIR pains and frustrations?

How can you solve their problems and help them achieve their goals?

If you focus on those concepts every time you make a group presentation you will find that you are much more successful at getting people to actually take ACTION when you are done rather than just thanking you for the information.

Simply saying “We have great rates and great service and we always close on time” is NOT a powerful, persuasive presentation!

You need to be more specific, “feel their pain” to quote a former president, and tell them WHY and HOW you are there to solve their problems.

If you want to get into this in much more depth, I HIGHLY recommend that you consider attending a three-day “InfluenceOlogy” workshop on your own.

Click Here to check out the InfluenceOlogy website for more info.

Roberto Monaco, Steve Tytler, Jeff Paro

Roberto Monaco, Steve Tytler, Jeff Paro

Here you can see me with the InfluenceOlogy experts Roberto Monaco (former #1 sales rep for Tony Robbins) and Jeff Paro (former Tony Robbins trainer).

October 26, 2010

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Break through the barriers that are holding you back!

Steve Tytler preparing to break a board

Steve Tytler preparing to break board

I am not a big believer in the “touchy feely” motivational stuff that you see at a lot of marketing seminars, but a week ago I was at seminar in San Diego where we learned how to make very powerful and persuasive group presentations.

The seminar was awesome, and I’ll post more about it shortly, but I want to tell you about an exercise they had us all do at the end of the seminar.

They made us break a board with our bare hands Karate style … with only a couple of minutes of instruction.

It was a metaphor for breaking through the barriers that are holding us back from achieving our goals.

Before we broke the board, we had to write on the board all our fears and other stuff that has been us holding us back. It sounds kind of crazy, but being able to break a board with my bare hands … something I had never done before in my life … really drove the point home.

Click Here to watch the video

October 22, 2010

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FOCUS to break through the barriers that are holding you back

Last weekend I attend a very intense 3-day seminar on how to make influential presentations. It was awesome! I will be posting more info about that shortly, but first I want to share this video with you.

At the end of the seminar, they made me break a one-inch think pine board with my bare hand!

Now, I have NO Karate training, as you will see in the video, I start out with my hand in the wrong position and they have to correct me. The point of this exercise is that breaking the board has nothing to do with raw strength, it’s all about FOCUS and the BELIEF that you can do it.

I was able to break the board because I was focused and committed. It is a metaphor for breaking through the barriers that are preventing you from achieving your goals and desires.

I hope this short videos inspires you because if I can break through a solid board with only two minutes of training, you can break through whatever is holding YOU back!

October 22, 2010

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Accountability Partner – Follow Up Report

At the beginning of this year I recommended that you get an accountability partner who will hold you responsible for actually following through on your plans and goals.

I’ve had an accountability partner since the beginning of this year and we talk every day at 6:00 PM to go over what we’ve done that day and what we’re going to do the next day.

Has it helped our businesses?

Absolutely!

My accountability partner is a mortgage loan officer and his personal production and income has more than doubled this year compared to last year and my business has grown dramatically this year as well.

So I can tell you from first hand experience that it really, really works.

It’s easy to tell yourself “I’m going to do xxxxx today … ” and then you get busy and “stuff happens” and you never get it done, so you say to yourself “I’ll do it tomorrow.” But you know what happens, you get busy again and you never get it done.

When you have made a commitment to your accountability partner to get something done and you know that he/she is going to be calling at 6:00 PM you will find yourself busting your but to do what you said you were going to do so that you don’t have to tell your partner that you didn’t accomplish that goal.

Now, of course, this only works if you are honest with your partner.

The #1 rule of accountability partners is “no judgment.” If you are afraid of being judged, you may be less than honest. But trust me, you don’t need to have your partner judge you to make you feel bad when you don’t accomplish your goals. I literally start sweating if it’s getting close to 6:00 PM and I have not finished whatever I said I was going to do.

For example, I promised to get a new marketing video online today. It’s 2 PM and I have get going so that I don’t have to tell my partner that I failed at that goal!

If you want to make more money and get more done, get an accountability partner, it really works!

April 15, 2010

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Is Carl White full of Crap? Did he really crack the Facebook code?

I spent 3 days in Tampa, Florida last week hanging out with “Mortgage Marketing Animal” Carl White and a couple dozen other top loan producers from around the country.

Marketing Animals Retreat - Tampa, FL

Carl White

At the mastermind retreat, Carl showed us his latest “evil scheme” … he has finally “cracked the code” and figured out a way to actually make money with Facebook!

Carl and I were hanging out in his backyard after the retreat and he talked about the results he is getting on Facebook.

Click Here to Watch my video interview with Carl White.